ID Verification

    Welcome to our site! In order to ensure that all of our members are over the age of 18, we require all users to verify their age upon registering for an account.

    After registration, you will receive 2 email reminders from the site to verify your age. If after 14 days you have not completed the verification process, your account will be automatically deleted.

    Verify on the App

    Go to your profile and click on the 3 dots in the top right hand corner and select verify profile. 


    Verifying on the website

    To verify your age, click on the "Verify my profile" button located next to your "Edit profile" button or on mobile under your profile avatar and details.

    The button is represented by a black star. Once you click on it, you will be prompted to upload a photo of yourself holding a valid government-issued ID.

    Please note that until your age is verified, you will only have read-only access to the site. This means that you will not be able to message, chat, comment, or reply.

    When uploading your ID, you have the option to hide or blur any personal information such as your legal name, address, or identifying numbers. However, we need to be able to see your photo, your face, your date of birth, and the issuing authority on the ID.

    1. Drag or upload a photo
    2. Click on Submit Queued Files
    3. Click on Submit Documents

    If you are on mobile website the button to upload is under the information. 

    Once you have clicked on submit queued files, you will then have a second button pop up which is to submit the documents for verification.


    We respect and understand that members of the LGBTIQA+ community may have concerns that their ID does not accurately reflect their identified gender or still have their deadname on it, but rest assured that we will verify the age based on the visible information only.

    If you have concerns or issues with your ID, please feel free to contact us at

    We understand that some users may be adverse to age verifying themselves, and we believe that it's okay. This just means that our site may not be the best fit for them. But please be informed that the safety and security of all members, including minors is our top priority and we believe that anyone who believes in safety will understand the need to age verify.

    We also want to let you know that the reason we implement this is to ensure that we can verify that members are over 18


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