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The Thrill of the Game: How Video Games Have Evolved and Continue to Captivate Players
Last posted by AnnaKink on March 21 2023 at 12:43 PM
Video games have come a long way since their inception in the 1970s. From the days of Pong and Space Invaders, games have evolved into complex, immersive experiences that offer players the chance...
Tips on Dating for Submissives
Last posted by VoidWeaver on March 21 2023 at 11:14 AM
Dating as a submissive in the BDSM world can be both exciting and challenging. It's important to find a partner who respects your boundaries and supports your desires, but it's not always easy...
Abusive Relationships
Last posted by AnnaKink on March 14 2023 at 01:51 PM
Abuse comes in many forms and it’s important to recognize them. Obviously, if your partner is hitting you, it’s abuse. However, sometimes it’s not quite cut and dried. Mental and verbal abuse can...
Risk Profiles
Last posted by AnnaKink on March 07 2023 at 11:10 AM
As a form of consensual power exchange, BDSM activities involve partners exploring their desires and boundaries through a variety of activities, such as spanking, bondage, and role-playing....
Honorifics
Last posted by SubmissualK on February 26 2023 at 01:40 PM
Honorifics, also known as titles or honorific pronouns, play a significant role in BDSM culture as they acknowledge and recognize a person's dominant or submissive role. These titles can range...
Breaking the Chains of Shame: The Importance of Sexual Freedom, Sex Positivity, and Consent in Kink and Vanilla Practices
Last posted by AnnaKink on February 25 2023 at 04:01 PM
Sexuality is a fundamental aspect of the human experience, yet it remains shrouded in shame, stigma, and secrecy. Society has long perpetuated the idea that there is only one “right” way to...
"Pre-Care: The Key to Safe and Pleasurable BDSM Scenes"
Last posted by AnnaKink on February 13 2023 at 11:53 AM
In the BDSM lifestyle, aftercare is a commonly discussed topic that highlights the importance of taking care of oneself and one's partner after a scene or sexual encounter. However, before...
Tips on dating for Dominants
Last posted by AnnaKink on February 09 2023 at 12:05 PM
Finding the right submissive partner can be a challenge for dominants in the BDSM community. Whether you are a seasoned dominant or just starting out, the dating process can be complex and...
Red Flag Green Flag – A discussion about what to look for in a play partner
Last posted by AnnaKink on February 08 2023 at 07:37 AM
BDSM relationships can be incredibly rewarding, but they also require a high degree of trust andintimacy between partners. A clear understanding of boundaries, desires and limitations is...
Quick introduction to Shibari
Last posted by AnnaKink on February 03 2023 at 02:26 PM
Shibari is a Japanese term that refers to the art of tying ropes in intricate patterns around the body. Originally used in hojojutsu, the traditional martial art of tying prisoners, Shibari has...
Quick introduction on Dominants
Last posted by AnnaKink on February 03 2023 at 02:15 PM
Introduction A dominant is a person who takes control and assumes the dominant role in a BDSM scene or relationship. The dominant is responsible for setting boundaries, guiding the submissive's...
Quick introduction on submissives
Last posted by AnnaKink on February 03 2023 at 02:05 PM
Introduction Submissives are individuals who take on a submissive role in a BDSM dynamic. This type of dynamic involves one partner taking on the role of the Dominant, while the other partner...
Aftercare
Last posted by AnnaKink on February 03 2023 at 01:33 PM
Introduction Aftercare is an important part of BDSM and it is the time when participants in a BDSM scene take care of each other and process the experience. Aftercare involves providing emotional...