If I had known from the start....

AnnaKink
AnnaKink
on December 09 2023 at 07:45 AM
Let's create a thread about answering the following:
 
What things I would have liked to have known before starting off in BDSM and why?
 
This could be useful for anyone who is new or just starting out to learn from others experiences, mistakes and hindsight. 
AnnaKink
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Maxi  
The main thing I wish I knew in the beginning was that there are NO experts in BDSM stuff. Also no particular way of doing something is necessarily the "one true way" of doing it. There are many different people doing similar things in different ways, and we can always learn something new from someone else, EVEN if we already have years of experience.
 
Beware the so called experts. Many of these have stopped learning because they feel they already know everything there is to know. That can make them become outdated, and sometimes dangerous, all while teaching new people their dangerous ways.
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