The main thing I wish I knew in the beginning was that there are NO experts in BDSM stuff. Also no particular way of doing something is necessarily the "one true way" of doing it. There are many different people doing similar things in different ways, and we can always learn something new from someone else, EVEN if we already have years of experience.
Beware the do called experts. Many of these have stopped learning because they feel they already know everything there is to know. That can…
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moreThe main thing I wish I knew in the beginning was that there are NO experts in BDSM stuff. Also no particular way of doing something is necessarily the "one true way" of doing it. There are many different people doing similar things in different ways, and we can always learn something new from someone else, EVEN if we already have years of experience.
Beware the do called experts. Many of these have stopped learning because they feel they already know everything there is to know. That can make them become outdated, and sometimes dangerous, all while teaching new people their dangerous ways.
