Some individual subscribe to the view that titles and honorifics are earnt eg: you can't call yourself a Master for example until x, y and z. Others, don't hold any weight to honorifics or titles and have no issue with them being used indiscriminately.
Discussing the use of honorifics allows parties to set clear boundaries, acknowledges the roles and desires of each partner, and establishes mutual respect and trust. However, it is essential to remember that even with the use of honorifics should always be consensual and based on personal preferences.
Partners should communicate clearly and establish boundaries regarding the use of honorifics to avoid misunderstandings and ensure that both parties feel comfortable and respected. Some people may prefer to use honorifics only in private, while others may be comfortable with their use in public settings.
As with all aspects of BDSM play, the use of honorifics should be approached with care and respect for the needs and desires of all parties involved.
Common and General terms you will hear people use or go by:
Sir | Pet | Daddy | Goddess |
Master | Princess | Baby doll | baby boy |
Mistress | Prince | Little one | |
Ma'am | Mommy | baby girl |
List of Gender nuetral/Non-Binary honorific titles:
Apha | Fiend | Pet |
Animal | Flame | Pig |
Baba | Goddex | Pincushion |
Baby bear | Gorgeous | Professor |
Bear | Handsome | Property |
Beast | Instructor | Protector |
Beautiful | Keeper | Provider |
Beloved | Leader | Puppet |
Bitch | Liege | Pup/puupy |
Boss | Little One | Servant |
Brat | Maestro | Slut |
Captain | Marionette | Sugar |
Chief | Mastress | Sweetness |
Coach | Minion | Supreme Leader |
Commander | Monster | Teacher |
Comrade | Mx. | Toy |
Creature | My Angel | Trainer |
Darling | My Dear | Treasure |
Demon | My love | Your Excellence |
Devine | My Life | Your Grace |
Doctor | My Light | Your Highness |
Doll | My Moon | Your Honor |
Dommy | My Sun | Your Majesty |
Drone | My Stars | Your worship |
These are just suggestions and ideas - the main thing is to have fun with it, come up with your own titles and honorifics to be used in your relationships.
You can even make them petnames, or terms of endearment, they can be made up or a combination of titles.