Honorifics

Honorifics, also known as titles or honorific pronouns, play a significant role in BDSM culture as they acknowledge and recognize a person's dominant or submissive role. These titles can range from formal to informal, romantic to platonic, and are used as a sign of respect and communication between partners.

 

Some individual subscribe to the view that titles and honorifics are earnt eg: you can't call yourself a Master for example until x, y and z. Others, don't hold any weight to honorifics or titles and have no issue with them being used indiscriminately.

 

Discussing the use of honorifics allows parties to set clear boundaries, acknowledges the roles and desires of each partner, and establishes mutual respect and trust. However, it is essential to remember that even with the use of honorifics should always be consensual and based on personal preferences.

 

Partners should communicate clearly and establish boundaries regarding the use of honorifics to avoid misunderstandings and ensure that both parties feel comfortable and respected. Some people may prefer to use honorifics only in private, while others may be comfortable with their use in public settings.

 

As with all aspects of BDSM play, the use of honorifics should be approached with care and respect for the needs and desires of all parties involved.

 

Common and General terms you will hear people use or go by:

Sir Pet Daddy Goddess
Master Princess Baby doll baby boy
Mistress Prince Little one  
Ma'am Mommy baby girl  

 

List of Gender nuetral/Non-Binary honorific titles:

Apha Fiend Pet
Animal Flame Pig
Baba Goddex Pincushion
Baby bear Gorgeous Professor
Bear Handsome Property
Beast Instructor Protector
Beautiful Keeper Provider
Beloved Leader Puppet
Bitch Liege Pup/puupy
Boss Little One Servant
Brat Maestro Slut
Captain Marionette Sugar
Chief Mastress Sweetness
Coach Minion Supreme Leader
Commander Monster Teacher
Comrade Mx. Toy
Creature My Angel Trainer
Darling My Dear Treasure
Demon My love Your Excellence
Devine My Life Your Grace
Doctor My Light Your Highness
Doll My Moon Your Honor
Dommy My Sun  Your Majesty
Drone My Stars Your worship

 

These are just suggestions and ideas - the main thing is to have fun with it,  come up with your own titles and honorifics to be used in your relationships. 

 

You can even make them petnames, or terms of endearment, they can be made up or a combination of titles. 

 

Feel free to comment more titles and honorifics you use, or have heard

Posted in BDSM/Kink Education on January 19 2023 at 02:47 PM
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AnnaKink    
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I've heard someone on TikTok say "my sir" to describe her date, and I thought that was cute~
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